Also interesting:

. . . You seem to be looking for her to explain why she left you--what was wrong with you, or the relationship, that she had to get out. That's kind of like asking an semi-illiterate to proofread a paper. They're likely to miss the things that are genuinely wrong, and correct some things that were right in the first place! If she's not an emotionally healthy person herself, and wouldn't know an emotionally healthy person/relationship if it bit her in the ass...do you think she's going to have much insight of value? . . . [Original Article]